Module 1: What Is Spirituality and Pastoral Friending?

Whoever loves God must also love his brother (or friend).

— 1 John 4:21

Module 1 · Five short parts

What's in this module

This first module is split into five short parts, so you can work through it a little at a time. Read them in order, or jump to whichever one you need — each links on to the next, and the assessment comes at the end of Part 5.

Part 1

What is the meaning of spirituality?

  • Christian context and the fundamentals of pastoral friending
  • Why you? — a moment of self-reflection
  • Defining spirituality, with three key quotations
Read Part 1
Part 2

What is spiritual caring or friending?

  • Confidentiality, and things to do and avoid
  • Care and the Gospel
  • Self-disclosure, and working as part of a team
Read Part 2
Part 3

Getting closer to God

  • Why this matters in pastoral friending
  • Two short articles for further reading
Read Part 3
Part 4

Spirituality and the role of prayer

  • Faith, healing and a positive mental approach
  • Self-reflection — knowing yourself as a carer
Read Part 4
Part 5

What is spiritual distress?

  • Recognising spiritual distress in a friend
  • What a pastoral friend can do to help
  • When to seek further assistance
Read Part 5

Ready to begin?

Start with Part 1, and work through at your own pace — the assessment is waiting at the end of Part 5.