Module 4 · Part 5 of 5
This is designed as a revision, practical section for the younger friends we're trying to help spiritually. Having looked at spiritual issues associated with various age groups, we can now look at some practical things to suggest, following the same age-group headings.
At this age, children learn through play, repetition, stories, music, and relationships. Some activities:
Simple Bible stories are so important when developing a love for God's word — for example: Genesis (God made the world), 1 Samuel (God speaks and listens), Mark (Jesus cares for us), Matthew (children are important to Jesus), Luke (loving others), and Old Testament stories of Daniel, Esther, Ruth, and David.
Spiritual focus: God loves me; God made me; God helps me; I can talk to God through prayer.
Children begin connecting stories to everyday life, and developing a stronger sense of right and wrong.
Spiritual focus questions: What does God want for my life? How does faith affect choices? How can I serve others? What does it mean to follow Jesus?
Encourage your friend to:
Your friend's dilemmas are real, so set aside time to spend with them privately to discuss their concerns. Avoid trying to fix their issues — if you want to make a suggestion, put it as "Have you thought of…?" They may say "Yes" and explain, or "No" and give it thought at some future point (which may not be immediate). Either way, you've sown a seed of thought, rather than issuing a "You should…" command.
Concentrated listening is vital — try to ensure your discussions have no distractions like a ringing phone, TV on nearby, or children playing noisily. A quiet, private, shared cup of tea or coffee can create a good environment. Help them explore other activities — home and garden care, nature walks, hobbies — that support a balanced perspective, and encourage them to connect more with their church group, both socially and spiritually, where friends can support their faith growth.
Above all, impress on them the need to ask for, and believe in, God's help through prayer. Pray with them in a quiet place, and tell them you'll pray for them in your own, personal prayers — the Apostle Paul was a great example of this, writing in many letters that he prayed for the individuals in the ecclesias (churches) to which he wrote.
Being practical in your discussions with friends can be of immense value to them. They may not accept what you say, but they'll appreciate your interest in their spiritual growth.
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